Guest favours, no input from my husband and general stressed out

Hi,

so we are having our wedding in less than two months. I would like to have guest favours small glass straws with the name of the guest engraved. Now I asked my husband several (!) times about all guests name, especially the wifes of his friends where we both don't know how the name is written, but still I never got all names and time is running as the order needs 4-6 weeks. I mean he could just text him and ask hey whats the name of your wife?

I actually don't know what to do: Should I just order the names I have and for the other guests there will ony a heart engraved? I also don't think I will get the names in the next 2 days, as I am asking already for weeks and never got it. Also my bridesmaid asking me several times for names of the guest as they need it for some sort of game. . And I am also worried how will guests feel if almost everyone got their name engraved including their partner but they get a heart engraved instead?

Second thing is I am really stressed because of this, my mental load is exploding because I can't check those things off my to do list. This ist just one example, there are several similar examples.I am really not far away to have a big fight with my husband about this.

Other than that the wedding planning is okay, he plans the menu, snacks, drinks and music for the party, I plan the ceremony, decor, flowers, guest favours, anything else.

Do you have an advice?