are there any good books improving on social skills written in the last decade?

I’m currently reading “How to talk to anyone” which was written in 1999 so it’s giving a lot of questionable advice such as “use big words so people think you’re smart” which sounds like a good way to make people hate you. the author of that book is 75 at this point and I’m 24 so I’m starting to think maybe she’s not the best person to give me advice on talking to other zoomers. does anyone have any better recommendations for younger people?