Why is the community so toxic around modded sims

I don't even consider my sims to be that yassified and i have received comments about or asks saying I only care about my sims being conventionally attractive or some other thing. I think modded sims look super pretty, even in some cases where it isn't realistic it's a game not real life after all. I love to play this game for the realistic stories i can tell and the drama. is it so bad to want your game to be aesthetically pleasing???