It’s my first time being OE and it’s slowly killing me.

How can you keep both jobs at the same time? I didn’t realize J2 would be this demanding, specially this time of the year. I’m in Soft Dev btw. Both jobs have multiple meetings, and are very demanding. I’m losing sleep, I haven’t been able to cook for myself, I can’t even shower at the very least because I’m always so tired 😭 Not to mention I have a place to maintain and dogs to feed. I barely have time for myself or my social life. 😭 Does anyone have any advice? J1 is my regular day job and J2 is my part time, but J2 pays twice than J1 but no benefits.