Whoever breaks up over text deserves a punch in the genitalia
A little context for my story I was with this woman (I’m 34 and she’s 39) anyway we were in a three month serious relationship said the L word and all that stuff but then Christmas rolls around and she invites how ex baby daddies (three children with two men) over for Christmas because for the sake of said children what I didn’t know is that the one was sleeping over with all of us in the house I told her I didn’t like it at all and was on edge especially when their off wrapping presents in there own world and I’m practically off by myself so I went to Bed Christmas Day rolls around and I leave to have to go work for a night shift turns out baby daddy slept over AGAIN I was furious and got angry at her and yelled at her this led to me straight up asked her if we’re done and I was left with an “I don’t know” I also told her I thought there was something between her and baby daddy #1 still and the reply I got was if there was something it’d be between me and baby daddy #2 so I said you give those two morons years of your life but I get upset at you for disrespecting me and I’m up on the fucking chopping block and hung up I left it for three days reconnected with her and I thought we were going to move past this conflict when I got this message you see above (oh but not before telling me that she loved and wanted to be with me. Is there anyway I can get over this easy how do I get past this humiliation is there something I could have done differently thanks everyone for reading and letting me vent
A little context for my story I was with this woman (I’m 34 and she’s 39) anyway we were in a three month serious relationship said the L word and all that stuff but then Christmas rolls around and she invites how ex baby daddies (three children with two men) over for Christmas because for the sake of said children what I didn’t know is that the one was sleeping over with all of us in the house I told her I didn’t like it at all and was on edge especially when their off wrapping presents in there own world and I’m practically off by myself so I went to Bed Christmas Day rolls around and I leave to have to go work for a night shift turns out baby daddy slept over AGAIN I was furious and got angry at her and yelled at her this led to me straight up asked her if we’re done and I was left with an “I don’t know” I also told her I thought there was something between her and baby daddy #1 still and the reply I got was if there was something it’d be between me and baby daddy #2 so I said you give those two morons years of your life but I get upset at you for disrespecting me and I’m up on the fucking chopping block and hung up I left it for three days reconnected with her and I thought we were going to move past this conflict when I got this message you see above (oh but not before telling me that she loved and wanted to be with me. Is there anyway I can get over this easy how do I get past this humiliation is there something I could have done differently thanks everyone for reading and letting me vent