My family keeps forgetting I’m gluten free

My family knows I’m gluten free but keeps picking places to eat that are either pizza, or pasta, or burgers, or other places that exclusively have gluten on the menu. They keep recommending me burger spots or bakeries. And honestly, it’s starting to get sad.

Like, you know I’m gluten free. Do you not understand that this isn’t a choice? That I get sick? I honestly think they just don’t think about it, and I don’t need them to, but it still feels rude or inconsiderate.

I want to be more involved with my family but I also don’t want to change all their yearly meeting spots. So it’s like, do I go and bring my own food? Do I go & not eat? Do I not go at all? I hate this so much. :(

Edit/update: the family event in question was today and I didn’t go. I got sick (a cold or the flu, idk) and didn’t feel like driving an hour away to sit in a restaurant and not eat. Too sick and tired anyways. Thank you to all who responded for your kind words and suggestions <3