I had to break up with my bf :(

I had to break up with my bf because he told me that I will be a trans woman which I don't want, he threatened to come over to me and forcefully put me on estrogen. So I told him I'm breaking up with him but he said that we ain't breaking up so I told my dad and luckily he handled the rest. I'm still upset with it because it's my longest relationship yet.