Success story!
I (56m) broke up with my wife of 7 years around the first of the year, got back together, and then broke up for good in April. Hit the apps in July, met a dozen or so nice people, saw one person for a couple of months who decided she didn't have room for a relationship in her life. In November a friend set me up with someone (45f) about 100 miles away and after a few dates and most of a couple of weekends together, we're nuts about each other. Have to work out the long-distance thing, but for now we're really happy seeing each other onceish a week (I'm staying at hers for two nights Fri-Sun, we're going to a nearby resort town for two nights over New Year's, etc.).
We both feel so lucky we found someone we feel compatible with and have such fun with. Good luck to you all!