My cousin nearly killed our grandfather with her kid.

Little back story first, but I need to rant about her.

My cousin, who used to actually be smart and level headed, had a baby 1.5 years ago and has become a complete selfish idiot since then, but that's a different rant. When she was pregnant, she had a baby shower where she got pretty much every major thing you need when having a kid - diaper genie, stroller, changing table, etc. Stuff that can be reused. Well now she's pregnant for a 2nd time, which is all shes talked about since having the first kid, so nobody was surprised.

But what did surprise us was her having another full on baby shower where the gift list was all the major things... Again. So on top of all that, she's also given our grandparents the cold shoulder since her inlaws live next door, she hardly brings the baby around to see them (20 minute drive), and if they ask to come over she tells them they need to bring food or something. So overall shitty treatment to our wonderful grandparents who have been nothing but loving and supportive.

Anyways, she has this baby shower and insist everyone has to come, no matter what (my wife and I stand out ground and don't go just cause it's not our thing). At the shower, she insists on our grandparents have to take care of the kids (hers and someone else's) so she and her friends can enjoy the shower (so they're free babysitting for an event I guess?). Well sure as shit, her kid has been sick with COVID.. WHICH SHE KNEW ABOUT! So not only does she treat our grandparents like 2nd class citizens, she literally hands a COVID bomb to the elderly knowing full well.

Well last night my grandfather had a stroke and the doctors think it was brought on by him having COVID. He's in the he hospital and doing better, but not out of the woods yet.

Oh and she didn't come to the hospital like everyone else did when they heard the news.

UPDATE: Grandfather was doing better but now going downhill, possible UTI.

Grandmother is now sick with COVID, my father is taking her to urgent care

Cousin who caused all this is at least sick now, but of course she's wanting her mom to take her to the hospital as well.