BWT, how do I develop taste?

I already have the bitch part down.

I came across a post about Vera Bradley bags, where you guys absolutely demolished Vera Bradley as "old lady"... I realized that as I walk around with one of these bags, that I may actually have no taste.

How do I actually develop taste at the age of 40? I'm tired of being "cute" and I think I might be stuck on my early 20s fashion wise.

Any suggestions? I want to be seen as a lady with taste.

Thanks. And sorry for the flair, it's the closest to my topic?