Any bi guys get treated like the 'gay best friend' after coming out to straight female friends & crushes?

I'm curious what your experiences have been with female friends/dates/aqaintences after coming out as bi, especially ones you hit on 😆

I have had a string of women act super flirty - want to hang out heaps, talk about their sex lives in intimate detail, invite me over late at night and offer for me to stay - but when I hit on them directly or just asked them what they wanted, they were surprised and not interested.

It's like they assume I'm just into guys now (I'm bi), not fuckable and want to use me as their counselor. I like being a trustworthy guy, but it has become a bit of a trend.

I should probably stop trying to sleep with my mates haha.

EDIT - I don't feel like I'm being totally used. I have great friends. I've learned that clear communication solves any confusion. I'm just surprised to learn about peoples attitudes towards bi guys. There are also perks to being the bi best friend in terms of trust and closeness which are great.