Ladies, time to be ✨mysterious femme fatales✨

Ladies who struggle with over-explaining raise your hands!! ✋✋✋

I had a realisation the other day about why I over-explain. So I am here to 1) explain my over-explaining and 2) hype myself up to NOT DO THE THING.

Why do I over-explain:

1) To signal transparency and trustworthiness. 2) Because saying things out loud helps me process things. 3) Because my brain run too fast and I anticipate questions people won’t even have in a million years. 4) IDK liberal doses of anxiety?

HOW I WILL NOT DO THE THING: 1) Channel my favourite Femme Fatale (Rachael from Bladerunner) 2) Remember people’s brains run at a snail’s pace to mine and won’t think the things I think they will thunk. 3) BE A MYSTERIOUS FEMME FATALE AND USE AS FEW WORDS AS POSSIBLE.

WHO IS WITH ME LADIES!?!