my straight roommate makes me uncomfortable on a daily basis

this is just a rant tbh lol.

okay so my roommate is straight and im a lesbian. i have 3 roommates and we share a living space and all sleep in the same room (dorm stuff). i told them like 1 month in like "hey girls, im gay just so you know. i havent and will never look at you weird." because i didnt want them to find out one day and suddenly be uncomfortable. i thought it was a good idea to tell them at the start.

none of them cared, which isnt surprising considering the fact that in the past 8 months of living together i never did anything that'd make them uncomfy. in fact they got so comfortable that they started jokingly flirting with me until i got a gf.

but one of them though, she's weird about it. ever since i got a gf she's been asking me so many invasive questions like "do you have any photos of your gf naked?" or "is the sex better when its two women?" or "can i watch the videos of you two making out?"

my answer to the absurd requests is a big fat no every time obviously. she introduced me to her childhood friends around a month ago and my girlfriend had sent me some "view once" pics. this girl (as always) was peeking over my shoulder and told me to open it in front of all of them.

i told her (very harshly) that absolutely not, this was for my eyes only and i would never betray my girlfriend's trust like that.

and then she started whining like "why tho?? its just us." etc and then her childhood friends both shut her up saying "her girlfriend sent those pictures just for her. dont poke your nose into people's lives." i thanked the girls and i turned off my phone after that.

i avoid talking to her as much as i can while sharing a living space but its just so strange to me.

i cant tell if she has a lesbian fetish as a straight girl or if she has some exploring to do but either way its so uncomfortable.

and yes, ive told her to stop and drop the subject multiple times.

i think its also important to mention that she has a boyfriend that she is super unhappy with and theyre both really abusive to each other.

she'll fight with her bf over the phone and then ask me "so what did you two do today?" and when i say we went on a date or something she'll get bitter.

she asked me multiple times if i was happy in my relationship and i genuinely am so i answer truthfully and each time she seems kinda upset about it?

and then she goes on to brag to me about her 2,5k promise ring from her abusive bf lol. my girlfriend and i have promise rings too and ours are just simple cute rings. i love my ring, as miss taylor said i'd marry my gf with paper rings lol.

she kept telling me "im carrying a fortune on my finger" and i eventually had enough so i told her "and im carrying a healthy relationship on my finger, hopefully you relate one day." which got her PISSED lmao. i was lowkey very pleased with myself ngl.

tomorrow is a special date for me and my girlfriend so i got her a bouquet of flowers and my roommate picked it up and said she'd take photos with my flowers and tell her friends they were for her. i told her to put my flowers down.

my best guess is that she thinks a lesbian relationship is easier and more loving so she is curious because she's unhappy in her own relationship but i dont know honestly.

im not a rude person usually and im quite good with keeping my cool in tense situations but if i dont act so harsh she literally never lets the subject go.

she's so obsessed with my relationship that even my religious roommate gets pissed for me.

also, i dont think it has anything to do with same sex relationships being easier than straight ones. if you love someone, relationships shouldnt weigh you down, they should lift you up instead. and all relationships require work and effort.

edit : since this post is getting lots of attention even though i never expected it to, please note that i live in a homophobic country where reporting her would be a danger to my own safety. thank you.