ULPT request : He said his wife died 3 years ago, but he's very married.

I [F 39] met this man online 7 months ago, he lives in the US, I am divorced with kids and I live in west africa, but I'm french. We have been texting and calling each other every weekend. He says he is in love, I am not but I enjoy our conversations. I discovered through a quick google search , that he is married (he said his wife died and was a single father) and 12 years older than what he told me (he said he was 45, he is in fact 57 years old). I want to be petty, but I don't want to hurt his wife, and kids. Any suggestions?