Changing surnames post marg

Just wondering what goes on through the minds of women who willingly change their surnames post marriage. 1) it gives me the ick to see newly married girls do that .. especially in arranged marg set up 2) strongly feel it’s a change of one’s identity.. and that the husband doesn’t have to act as our representation 3) proudly wanna carry on with my dads name/ family surname

Any reasons for you to change or not change ur surnames?

Ps- I’m married, never will change my maiden name Edit- It’s just a simple question for discussion, no point In Dragging pseudo feminism here guys. Chill pls lol