You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds.

Inspired by this video: https://youtu.be/eqvS3R58E8Q?si=dwrTfZ3FObhVucy2

TLDR on video - Conservative woman shocked how hostile women on tiktok are against a particular 'men's issue' of people problems.

Yeah, when you dont understand why there's a hostile response it just looks like blantant man hating. When you take into account women's experience with the topic, the reaction makes more sense. This post is about discussing one of those reason(s).

There's a large group of men who just dont want to socialize. Sure, they'll complain about being lonely but dont expect them to put in much effort. So these guys wont stop playing video games alone and they wont try to find hobbies to bond with others over.

This is especially infuriating when these guys insist only a woman can fix the problem. Plenty of women had to cut ties with guys because as soon as she shows some compassion, he wants his dick touched. And even when these guys get a girlfriend, they'll want physical contact, but they stop wanting to maintain social interactions with the girlfriend. This is especially bad if theyre conservative because young unmarried are dispropionately liberal, so great job repelling the few women who'd date you.

If guys wanna be alone, thats fine. Just dont act like its a problem that other people are expected to fix. You can't help people who don't want to help themselves.