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My husband started the physical abuse this week. It’s been years of emotional snd financial, but this week it became physically battering. Also, he called the police on me for “being drunk and angry” after I had two drinks with an 80 year old man who knows my dad. He began the smear campaign, I guess. I have seen him through addiction, rehab, relapse, unemployment, etc, but he started SCREAMING and spitting in my face. He is calling me names in front of the kids, all while being wasted. But tonight he was sober, as was I, and when I wanted to talk about the week and him treating me badly his tome hot glay, his eyes got black, he blamed everything on my not working (I have cancer), and locked me out of our room. When i tried to bust in, he called the police. This man hit me in the last 24 hours, but called police on me for trying to get into my own room. I started taking notes on the abuse a while back, but this sort of re-blame has me embarrassed and heartbroken.