How many times have you lost your wallet?

I cannot count the amount of times in my generally disoriented and frazzled state that I've lost my entire wallet and had to get a new debit card. I no exaggeration have probably done so 10 times at this point.

I was at work today and went to go pay for my lunch and realized my debit card wasn't in my wallet. JUST the debit card. Stupidly, I've always had a wallet that's connected to my phone and multiple times I've had cards, sometimes all of them, fall out of it as I'm walking without me noticing.

Frankly, I'm pissed. I'm so tired of being this dumb and unorganized. I'm always told to "be more careful" but I don't know how.

Is it just me who tends to lose important items like this frequently?