Nervous about a potential marriage (new muslimah)

Final update: was really busy and just didn’t have time to write anything else but I ended it with him. He said he respects my decision and won’t force anything. I was sad for a few mins then realized Allah swt knows best and did me a favor. I also went into the Salams app to delete my account and saw he was still active on it anyway 🤣 Allahu akbar! Thanks everyone 😊

Edit: thank you to everyone who has commented so far. I write this edit with tears 😂 I figured this would be the only place where I could be guided. Open to more advice. I do want to add I pray my 5 salah and this is my second Ramadan so I am on the right path anyway. May Allah remove anyone and anything not meant for me.

Edit 2: I will be ending it with him tonight. I feel like a big gullible idiot. Thank you everyone 🥲🤲

Assalamu alaykum everyone. I have a tough situation and am looking for some advice… I’m a new Muslimah, alhamdulillah, I reverted in December. There’s really no Muslim community close by to me and most of my friends live overseas. One person suggested to me to download Salams to meet people. I downloaded it for friends at first but honestly didn’t have luck. It seemed like all the girls there were only looking to connect brands and instagrams rather than genuine friendships :/

I ended up switching it to the dating side. I really only talked to 2 people and ultimately stopped talking to one and continued with the other. We’ve been talking for only 2 weeks. He’s very practicing, handsome, has a good and well paying business he started and is ready to settle down asap. He is not from the US but has been here for a few years. He is 31, I am 26. He is also divorced as his first marriage was only arranged per his grandmothers dying wish. He had mentioned nikah and marriage within a few days of us talking. As a new Muslim, relationships moving very quickly is not something I am used to, but I like him very much. He asked if I would be ready within a few months.

This is probably a harmful thought, I was hoping he wasn’t just trying to get citizenship.

He showers me with compliments, reassurance, teaches me about Islam and has sent gifts to my house almost every day. Even things for my family. He says he’s never fallen for someone so quickly and has only ever been with his ex wife, I was the only person he’s liked from the app.

Yesterday, his energy felt a bit different so I asked him and he didn’t really want to disclose but he ended up telling me that his friend was just detained by ice out of his home and is most likely going to be deported and he was sad. He said there is a great risk of the same thing happening to him. I immediately felt really sad and he said he doesn’t want me to be sad and maybe he shouldn’t have told me. He said if it happens before (we were planning to meet for dinner after Ramadan) then he will contact me from his home country. He also said he wants me to find someone who will take care of me and always keep me happy and that he loves me. (I haven’t said it back, I just am not ready for that but I have strong feelings for him).

My mom thinks he is looking for a wife to keep citizenship. Is it bad I am considering it to keep him here?? Am I easily manipulated? May Allah forgive me if I am thinking or saying bad things here. I am navigating this new life completely alone and really need some advice here. Please guide me if you can. Thank you for reading 🤲🩷