Been married 6 years still a virgin.

Salaam, I have been married for six years, and my husband still has “performance anxiety”; hence, we have not been physically intimate. He speaks to a sexual therapist; however, it has not improved. He isn’t great at using other things either, and I’m just getting fed up with being patient. He is a great guy, but it is frustrating. My brothers and sisters got married after I started having families, and I’m yet here trying to lose my virginity. My husband blamed me at first, saying I might have a Vaginismus, which I got checked out and was fine. Due to not having experience, I had to speak to a professional because I felt like he couldn’t stay erect long enough and then would want oral again. I also thought the side might be an issue, too. At the start of our marriage, I’d dress up for him in lingerie. He always looked good, but I was always disappointed because he couldn’t perform; it made me feel ugly.

I’ve been patient with him for six years now, and I think I want out of this marriage because it’s not progressing, and I’m getting old. I want to have a family and an intimate relationship!!!

I'm looking for advice… if you don't believe me, don't care tbh.