Men and Women of LIB

I think we can all agree that the latest LIB season - but also LIB in general - had top notch women but men who didn't match up to them. The women are smart, beautiful, progressive, level headed, mature and know what they want. But the men seem to be indecisive, not quite clear about what they want in life, hold on to outdated values and opinions and generally not as stellar as the women. I wonder why is that? 1. Is this how it is in real life? That women in general aren't able to find men that are as good as them? So does that mean most women "settle" for someone good enough? Or is it just LIB? 2. Or is it just the way the show is being edited that the men come across like this? 3. Or is LIB purposely picking stellar women and not-so-stellar men because the showrunners think this gives a bit of a "schadenfreude" type appeal to the show and hence, brings more female viewers?