I’m shifting PDI

I’ve been a long time BDI believer even since before the Dr Phil interview but lately I’ve been leading more PDI with minimal involvement from John but some involvement since it’s not likely he was totally ignorant to what happened. One thing I have a hard time reconciling is if PDI why decide to stay with patsy all those years..if you found out your wife murdered your child and was working I staging a scene, how could you possibly just go along with it. This is always why I’ve been BDI because it makes more sense for them to be unified for Burke. I’m not sure I believe that John was SAing her chronically. Sure he may have been and this could be an explanation but I think it’s more likely the trauma JBR had was from more childlike play or penetration from someone curious like Burke. I mean patsy needed John financially but John did not need to stay beholden to patsy. I mean he had a very stable job and was already co parenting with his older kids from a previous marriage. I can’t understand why if PDI why John has been putting on this show especially long after her death. If he was about image and ego then why not sell her out and come off as the hero that is fighting for his daughter’s justice by trying to get patsy behind bars. This is the one thing I get hung up on with PDIA or various PDI versions