Is that too hard to stay unmarried?

Why can't we normalize being unmarried for females? People target even more when they see ik religious, just because I'm religious doesn't mean I'm bound to marry. It's Sunnah not Farz. Why do I need to force myself to marry if I'm not comfortable and feel the person isn't right for me. Why can't I choose to stay unmarried and stay happy instead of marrying wrong person.