What adaptations have friends and family members made for you?

We were very recently diagnosed with DID. Our host discovered we are a system about four days ago, while most of the rest of us have been figuring it out over the past two months. We have some nurospicy stuff going on, most notably autism and ADHD. With some of our close friends, we've told them that if we give them a specific time window such as "I'll be there in 45 minutes" always assume it will take twice the amount of time due to ADHD. So far our friends have been happy to make that accomodation and actually really appreciate being able to anticipate and plan for our inconsistency

I'm wondering if there's anything you ask of your friends and supportive family members to make both the system and the loved ones lives easier