Just ask them out

A bit of advice. I see a lot of posts about chatting on the app and sending messages. Sometimes the chats run dry or seem to fade. But they keep replying. You mention running out of things to talk about or the other person not asking questions.

Look, not everyone likes texting and trying to have a conversation on the app. It’s an asynchronous conversation and hard to get a rhythm going.

So just ask the person to meet. Plain and simple. Honestly that’s what a lot of people are waiting for. We are on the app to MEET people not be pen pals. Sure you need to vet a little bit. They should be able to start chatting and sound normal, not get sexual, etc. I’m just saying when the conversation starts to fade it’s time to move to meeting.

I just did that. I had a woman that stopped texting me a week ago. We only matched and chatted that one day. I replied but didn’t ask a question. I never heard from her all week. So then I just said “want to grab coffee and talk?” She said “sure that sounds great”. So I need to look at my schedule because I have other dates.