what’s something you’ll never understand about men?

the two things that stick out to me are:

• guys that don’t like being called dude/bro in a relationship. i’ve seen plenty of guys get huffy about it, while it’s kind of funny it also just doesn’t make sense to me

• guys complaining about women who have standards, but ignore that they themselves are also allowed to have standards. i’ve had the “it’s so much easier for women to find men than vice versa, so men HAVE to take what they can get” argument with guys time and time again. when i point out that they don’t have to settle for someone they aren’t compatible with and can set standards, they typically act confused or get more upset