For cisgender individuals who are part of the LGBTQ+ community and are in relationships with transgender individuals, what has your experience been like?

I’ve noticed a rise in transphobia within the LGBTQ+ community, which concerns me. While there are many supportive people, I've encountered some troubling attitudes, especially within the gay and lesbian communities. I'm not referring to individuals who don’t want to date transgender people due to personal preferences, such as those based on "private parts", I understand that everyone has their preferences. What I’m concerned about are those who hold transphobic beliefs, like saying “transgender men aren’t men,” or using similar harmful language to justify not dating transgender people. It’s perfectly fine if someone doesn’t want to date a transgender individual, but denying their identity by saying they aren’t "real" men or women is unacceptable. I've also encountered individuals in the LGBTQ+ community who don't want to accept transgender individuals

I’m asking about others' experiences in relationships because I feel anxious and scared about not being accepted within the LGBTQ+ community, not just in romantic relationships, but as a person who simply wants to be happy. This isn’t just a personal concern—it’s something that many of my transgender and non-binary friends have expressed as well. They’ve shared that they feel unsafe or unsupported, and I want to understand how others navigate these challenges.

With all that being said, I believe that the majority of individuals in the LGBTQ+ community are extremely supportive toward each others, and I don't mean to offended anyone by posting this, I'm sorry in advance if I accidentally hurt someone's feeling and I will delete this post if someone feels uncomfortable, I don't want to accidentally hurt someone's feelings because I'd feel really bad

Thanks for reading this♥️ And thanks in advance to anyone who response