This entitlement needs to stop .

So I have seen many boys getting advices such as “ study hard , earn money and you will get a beautiful wife”

Or something like that”yeh kar aur ladkiyo ki line lagegi tere peeche”

Some lies sold to men. I am talking about this because I saw a post on reddit and also a comment on Instagram that triggered me.

A man literally said “ so I study hard, make my parents proud, do a good job so don’t I deserve a fresh (virgin) and beautiful girl?” “I deserve to look at something that’s conventionally beautiful “

I mean I am not saying there isn’t physical attraction but I am so shocked that some men feel entitled to get a “FAIR, THIN and beautiful woman “ just because they studied and got a job like most of us try to do

Some men are sold this lie that if they work hard like go to gym, study or do anything to improve themselves will create a line of beautiful women who wants them.

This is not true and has no correlation to dating, at the end it only matters to one thing : your attractiveness, personality and compatibility.

If a person doesn’t feel anything good about all of those three then NO matter what you have studied or are earning or how fine your body looks doesn’t really matters to most people.(unless they’re after your money)

I have seen some boys cry over this . They feel that they SHOULD get a BEAUTIFUL woman because they have done things in life. Idk how SOME men are so delusional. One guy literally told how he was in this top college yet still girls won’t date him.

Edit: Boys, I am not against your preferences. I just want you guys to study and earn for yourselves. Education is power and health is wealth. Not to bag a lady like a PRIZE .

If you want a lady (by all means if it feels like a necessity) in your life, please focus on your personality that doesn’t need babysitting and learning to do your own chores Please do not hate.