UPDATE: AIO to boyfriends response to my hysterectomy

Link to original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/comments/1ih0mtn/aio_to_my_boyfriends_response_to_my_hysterectomy/?share_id=BrXqEdKupaXmrac8PbhiV&utm_content=2&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1&rdt=44897 Thanks to everyone for the support and advice. Lots of people messaged me privately and I can’t begin to explain how kind, and supportive you’ve been to me. We live in different cities and have talked about this many times, he was in no way blind sided by my decision. We talk on the phone and text; that’s our main way of communicating. He asked me to call him after my appointment and when we talked he blew up on me and that’s where this text conversation starts. For those saying it’s easy to ignore him, that’s not always the case. When someone attacks you and says mean things it’s difficult not to respond and defend yourself. I was in the heat of the moment too, just like him. I wanted to wait to see him in person to break it off but as the messages show he got increasingly more abusive, in my opinion. I did call him and as soon as he picked up he yelled at me, so I hung up, sent my final text and blocked him for good. For those wondering if there were red flags before, truly there were none. Sure, he’s a human and has flaws and opinions I don’t always agree with but this person in the text conversation is a COMPLETELY different man than what I experienced all these years. I really don’t know where this came from, I’m just as shocked as the rest of you. I have never, ever seen this side of him and honestly I didn’t know it could even exist. He is gone from my life, I’ve blocked him and all of his fake accounts as well. I’m sad but I’ll be ok. Thanks again to everyone who supported me

P.S. to the trolls: You’re too cowardly to post on my thread so you think you’re safe messaging me in private. I’m calling you out and your messages are in the photo slideshow at the end. I’m shaming you for asking for my nudes and telling me to end my life because of my disease. Respectfully, have the year you deserve

TLDR: I broke up with him, he didn’t take it very well. He’s out of my life FOR GOOD