Update for my husband is cheating and calls me crazy
Update : So, I spoke with my husband who told me he is not responsible for spotty cell coverage and these things happen. It was not spotty cell coverage for a phone going black for over 3 hours but he wouldn't even let me talk. Then he accused me of wanting to divorce him and making up stories so it appears it's his fault. Someone talked about DARVA on my last post and boy were they right! He is definitely turning the tables and deflects to me. I really need to find definitive proof to move forward. I am not going to find anything in his devices. There is nothing there. I even went to a subthread here on reddit called adultery (which made me physically sick, do not recommend) to read about all their tricks, but it didn't really help me find anything. IF you have any suggestions like recorders or trackers that I can use, please feel free to share. I could drive by his work and see if his car is there. I work from home, so.I have some flexibility but not too much.
Yeah, if you told me a year ago that my husband would gaslight me this much, I never would have believed it.
This is a response/update to my previous post. I have to start a new one because my other post got locked. I think I got my answer. It's still not a smoking gun, but my husband went on a trip. This was a legitimate trip but today he said he was going to see a friend of his who lives in that area. So, out of curiosity I check his location and he had disabled it. I can tell because it's been over an hour and his phone is dark. I was livid he would do this. I waited and waited, his phone never came online, so I called him. Guess what he turned his phone off too. God knows what he is doing! I guess I need to find a divorce lawyer and get tested for STDs.
I do want to thank all of you kind people who responded. Your words and advice meant a lot to me. I had no-one else to talk to.